I'm glad I don't work for Michael Scott

  Ya, I’m referring to the Office character, and to be sure, I’m definitely not referring to the local Mr. Scott in my town.  If you’ve ever seen an episode of the Office, I’m sure you know exactly what I’m saying.  Michael Scott is a train wreck of a boss, but yet a lovable type of guy who happens to be hilarious.   Funny yes, but not someone I’d want to work for.

  My wife and I are fortunate to work for small companies.  For both of us it’s been a breath of fresh air beyond the corporate arena where often times employees get lost in the shuffle.  Maybe down the road we will find ourselves in a more corporate position, but not in this season of life.

  One thing that both my wife and I share are great bosses.  Both of our bosses are very different, and we have an appreciation for both of them.  I think that I can admit that I appreciate a boss who shines in the little things.  Little pick me ups or pats on the back type of stuff, but don’t get me wrong- a new car bonus would be sweet as well!  

  I’ll give you two small examples that my wife and I have appreciated from the past year.  On a recent friday night, my wife and I were out to dinner with our son and a close friend.  We happened to run into her boss and his wife at the restaurant, and they stopped by our table while leaving.  We had a nice friendly chat, her boss spent time talking with our son, and then as they were leaving he said, “Put dinner on the company card.”  And they left.   And we ordered another round of desserts!  (Absolutely joking)  A simple act of appreciation, but a gift we unexpectedly enjoyed.

  Earlier this year, my vehicle was leaking fluid and I discovered that my water pump needed replaced.  The repair was slightly above my experience level, but my boss encouraged me to attempt it.  Not only did he offer advice, but he helped me after dinner one night, and even put parts back together the following day while I was out of the office running a call.  Again, a simple gift of lending a hand that helped me out.

  Living as a boss in a great responsibility, often a 24 hour duty.  Maybe you’re a boss, supervisor, manager or team leader.  I think the fast pace of work, and the burden of duty can often skew our vision of relating to those with us.  So, I challenge us to take a second and reach out in a simple way to connect with your team or a co-worker.  Give the gift of a cup of coffee, or a sweet cinnamon crunch bagel from Panera.

  Take time to show a little appreciation and share life- it may make the workplace a bit more bearable.

Shout outs

Shout outs-   Have you ever noticed that most shout outs are lame?  Like the shout outs given at the overrated awards ceremony that make me want to vomit? 

  Today I feel like a have a shout out worth proclaiming.  I’m throwing a shout out to my parents- Chuck and Missy.  Last Friday was Grandparents Day at my son’s school; a day filled with crafts, snacks, silly songs, and poems for appreciating Grandparents.  I appreciate my Mom and Dad taking an afternoon, and making the necessary adjustments in their schedule to make it happen.  Their efforts and support really made Landon’s day, and he was proud.

  But really, this shout out goes beyond an afternoon in October at an elementary school.  My parents have a long track record of support, self sacrifice, investment, long days/nights, and schedule adjustments.

  I can count (on one hand) how many events my Mom and Dad haven’t been able to attend and support me in my life.  While I was growing up, they made crazy efforts to be with me, showing up to give their support.  Sometimes they supported me beyond what I expected them to, and looking back there were times I would of have them rested!!  Ya know, take a night off!!

  Support came in many different forms, everything from soccer games and hundreds of practices, thousands of dollars and weekend trips- to loud band practices in the back room, and sparsely attended shows in upper rooms.  Support for youth group trips, concerts, and late nights out.  

  I don’t think any of us would proclaim our parents to be perfect, as none of us even throw that label on ourselves.  My parents; however, got it right more often than they got it wrong.  They also challenged me, and spiritually guided me and provided a solid atmosphere for me to grow up in.

  SO, in conclusion to my shout out-  Mom and Dad I’m thankful for you both and your continued support!!

  I look in the mirror as a parent and want to be supportive of my son, and I challenge you to do the same.